Orgasm: the “little death”
Winter of 2020
The orgasm is the closest we come to experiencing a physical death while still being alive and rooted to our body temple. Many times we hear about near death or death experiences where the individual actually did die and left the body but circumstances where such that they returned to the body temple to live out another re-birth. This usually followed by a strong sense of new purpose and focus in life. The orgasm is very different as it opens up the inherent multi layered purpose for death and rebirth. The most primary and primitive purpose of its movement is to physically facilitate conception of new life through the delivery of sperm via the penis to the egg of life, that are housed in the ovaries. However, the time has come in our evolutionary dance to elevate our consciousness in order to expand our accessibility to a multi-sensory existence within our physical bodies. It’s now time to realize that the only way we may change the world for better is to change how we perceive life as the world. Meaning, we must transform our sensory systems to match the new frequencies of transmutation (the action of changing a state of being into another form).
The female body may receive the sperm and embark upon the journey of conception without experiencing an orgasm. So, here in lies the mystery question...”why is it that the man have to physically experience the “little death” in order to pass on his seed - but, the woman doesn’t in order to fertilize her egg of life?
The female body is physically structured differently, yes we know!...but the neurological and energetic wiring of the female body is a completely different story. The existential survival pressure that the man experience influences strong connections between his “upper” head and his “lower” head - and falls pray to the very primal imprinting of this relation to assure the species via inserting himself into everything he comes in contact with. The woman’s primal imprint, for the same cause, is to nurture and protect that which she is nursing, for the assurance of its survival and this movement comes from the heart. Now, because the woman’s body wiring is so much more complex than the man she is left with a multitude of options as her feeling heart is strongly connected to her organ of creation and the egg of life. Her body goes through multiple deaths while growing actual life within her as does her essential nature - expands into greater consciousness, as it has to be accessed through her and as her in order to give way to new life. She has to die to herself, both physically, via the morphing of her body, and emotionally as there is no escaping life that is growing within which is demanding a new paradigm shift within the emotional body to hold the energies of mother hood. This can be experienced as quite the roller coaster during the gestational phase and is extremely important to be fully present to as it is toning the woman’s emotional muscle for sustaining the insult of the chaotic energies of a newborn’s preverbal emotional life. I point all of this out because it is a beautiful example of what happens when we as human beings are looking for healing and transformation of our own lives. Emotions run wild, our bodies morphs in and out of different postures of identities and representations of old aspect of us that are called to come froth and reveal themselves fully so we are awake enough to be fully present to their death.
The highest cause of death in women is heart disease - our hearts give up on us! Why? Because we are not listening to our deeper calling for the assurance of our species, which is to step into our magic of co-creation by surrendering to our nature’s wisdom of death and rebirth and open up spaciousness for greater access of consciousness through us, as us, so we can create a new world where we all may feel nurtured and protected and thrive via the manifestation of this mystery of sexual aliveness and its energies of transmutation.
If we look deeper than what is just on the surface of our perceptive field - we may actually see the writing on the wall of the mystery of life becoming. Is transformation possible? Yes!! Can we possibly “save” the world? Yes!! FYI; the planet, Great Mother, is one thing...she doesn’t need saving as she has many manifestations of expressions. However, the world that WE have created as human beings to live in, is another thing...this world definitely needs saving if we are to stay in co existence with Goddess Gaia, our planet.
Again, we can only change the world by changing how we view the world by transmuting our organ of perception and becoming multisensory in order to access more consciousness through our biological beings.
How do we do this? - By direct experience of Samsara...death and rebirth. Allowing our essential nature to organically evolve through the existence of and presence of life within us all. To deeply bow in awe of our nature and realize that we are miracles waiting to be mobilized into form over and over again.
So what happens when we surrender to the orgasm? - It affords us the direct experience of both pleasure and pain for the mere purpose of the evolutionary courtship of life called Samsara.